Being a single mother in today’s world is no easy feat. It’s a challenge for many just making sure they can keep a job, food on the table, homework done and in bed by a decent time– not to mention taking care of things for themselves. There’s so much that women have to juggle and much stress that comes along with it.
We know Cardi as one of the hottest rappers in the game right now, but she’s also a mom and she recently made a cautionary plea to all single moms via Twitter with regards to who you allow around your children:
Dear Moms, I know it’s hard to find good babysitters you can trust (I still don’t have one 😩) and I know sometimes the money isn’t there but PLEASE STOP leaving ya kids with your boyfriends! The devil is manipulating their minds especially when they are needy of attention.— iamcardib (@iamcardib) May 13, 2019
You can tell how passionate the “Bodak “Yellow” rapper is amid news that has garnered national attention surrounding the disappearance of 4-year-old Maleah Davis’ on May 4th.
The child was reportedly with her mother’s ex-fiance, Derion Vence when he claims Maleah was kidnapped by three men in a supposed carjacking. Vence was arrested Saturday in connection with her disappearance being charged with tampering with a human corpse, “after the smell of decomposing human remains was detected in the trunk of a car he had driven, according to court documents. ” Police have also found blood and human tissue linked to Maleah throughout the apartment that the suspect and Maleah’s mother share.
this needs to be said a million times, we can’t keep turning on the news and hearing these traumatic stories of what can happen when you leave your child with a man you barely know— Maryam Toson (@maryamtoson) May 14, 2019
And if you have a boyfriend that cannot be trusted alone with children you should get rid of him asap— carlita 🌸 (@carleti8) May 13, 2019
Throw the whole man away if u got those kinds of suspicions pic.twitter.com/pPALfnaOvQ— 👑웃👑 𝕌 𝕊𝕙𝕠𝕦𝕝𝕕ℂ𝕣𝕠𝕨𝕟 𝕄𝕖 (@BlAcKrIcAn_ChIc) May 14, 2019
If you can’t trust your boyfriend with your child you need more than a babysitter… you need a new man.— Sarahrahrah (@lepidopsarah) May 13, 2019
If you can’t trust him, throw out the whole man.— CurvyLettuce (@ZombieGoreBaby) May 13, 2019
Aaaaand some women need to quit being so desperate for love and picking those no good men over their precious kids. As soon as you see a sign that he’s no good let him go. God will bless you with the right man🙄🤷🏽♀️— Nikki (@nikki0448) May 14, 2019
Unfortunately this applies to certain family members also. If they are toxic for me they would be toxic for any kids I might have.— Juliette 33 (@iamjuliette33) May 14, 2019
I’m a 24 y.o. experienced grad student/nanny trained to work with babies on their language and development! I’d be happy to babysit your little angel anytime you’re in Atlanta! I can send you several references! I’m great with babies and everyone who knows me knows I love them!— Jenna (@jennadmercer) May 14, 2019
my mom is the besssst babysitter/ nanny. she works for 2 FBI families (cooks/house cleans for 1 and nanny/cooks for the other 1) and she was the nanny for a SF 49er until they moved across the country. she’s willing to move 😂 for business inquiries (firstname.lastname@example.org) pic.twitter.com/UiIMQq4Cro— lizcastle (@lcastlexo) May 14, 2019
I have excellent reviews. I’d love to be a full time nanny for (the) Kulture.— J̺o̺ 🔱🔮 🧜🏾♀️ (@jayjaysunsun) May 14, 2019
Need a babysitter? I’m here! Love kids! Worked in a preschool and daycare and can’t get enough of the little ones! They light me up!— TayTay G (@taylergreen17) May 14, 2019
Ill babysit for u OKKURRR!!!! I got references!!!!! Hmu mami— Erika Ventura (@RickaRoss) May 14, 2019
i will dropout of college right now to be your nanny. my dms are open i’ll send u a resume!— hope🌴 (@Hopi_Hope) May 14, 2019
It’s safe to say that there are people that just can’t be trusted. Single moms (and dads out there), we HAVE to do better.
h/t Rolling Out