Guy Sends Atrocious List Of ‘Self-Improvement Tips’ Months After Tinder Date

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Facebook / Kimberley Latham-Hawkesford

Everyone is perplexed after reading a crazy list of “improvements” sent to a UK woman by a Tinder date gone completely wrong.

The unrequested list of “suggestions” arrived in 24-year-old Kimberley Latham Hawkesford’s Facebook inbox after going on one date with the man she matched with on Tinder.

Kimberley told LADbible that the ‘date was just a disaster.’ Things started nicely as the duo went for coffee at a local shop, but as the pair went to a nearby pub for food, the Tinder date took an unexpected turn for the worst.

Apparently, Kim’s date, “Luke”, couldn’t hide the fact that he was indeed a self-absorbed prick. First, he asked Kim if she was open to having plastic surgery – then went on to give Kim fashion pointers about where to shop before their next meeting.


Kim was further put off when her offer to pay for the meal at the restaurant sent Luke in a tizzy. According to LADBible, Luke showed Kim screenshots of his bank account when Kim proposed paying for the meal.

After the Tinder date from hell, Kim moved on with no communication with Luke for months. That is until the suspected psychopath interjected himself into Kim’s life once more with a long bulleted list of improvements he feels she should make.

Kim decided to expose the snobby message by sharing it on Facebook:

Imagine being so far up your own ass you’d send this to a girl 3 months after a date 🤦

Posted by Kimberley Latham-Hawkesford on Tuesday, February 26, 2019

The long-winded note opened with the man’s explanation of why he felt compelled to write in the first place:

Hello Kimberley, I know we went on a date quite a while ago now but I’d like to explain why I haven’t messaged you. I feel like you could have made the date much better, here’s a few reasons why. I apologize if I offend you.

The unwarranted list included suggestions like losing weight (1 stone = 14 pounds), getting more lip filler and laying off of the soft drinks.

Facebook / Kimberley Latham Hawkesford
Facebook / Kimberley Latham Hawkesford
Facebook / Kimberley Latham Hawkesford

Luke then ended the obscenely offensive note by offering Kim a chance at a second date with him.

Facebook / Kimberley Latham Hawkesford

Kimberley had this to say about the message she received from her Tinder date from hell in an interview with LADBible.

At first, I was absolutely mortified and it killed my confidence, but the more I read it the funnier it became. My only tip for him is to respect women as his behavior is disgusting,”

Hopefully this is the last that Kim hears from this obsessive egomaniac.

h/t LADBible